Another Teenage Love Problem :)

[Megan!]

Heya, Wow ta for acually looking at the thread Right im'ma give you basics to try and get this out.

Well me and my ex boyfriend [Now current? I'll explain] Well we ended on REALLY bad terms, as in we had a huge huge argument and bad things were said on both sides. I was in tears over it, so i looked to my mate in comfort. He was there for me and cheered me up, Later on that week or the week after my mate and i like became boyfriend and girlfriend. And i thought i loved him. But then he started irritating me ect.ect. And my ex and i started talking again. Now my ex and I, we hit it off straight away, it was like we were together, All over again. Then well on mid-night on new years My ex and I decided to get back together, Now this sounds really mean of me because well i was still with my friend. The next day i broke up with my friend and i'm now back with my Ex, if you get me. But my friend is still "in love" with me, and they dont know i'm back with my Ex and thinks we still might have a chance together. so erm....Little help? What do i do?

[Thanx for reading it all btw]

[Rich]

Well dump them both and go out with me Now on a serious note you should tell your friend ex that your back with your other ex because i supposes its only fair to tell him since hes still in love with you

[Megan!]

Hmm i s'pose its just i know it will break him to pieces so im kinda sceared

[chloéamber]

This is going to sound so harsh, but theres a reason you and your ex broke up, and its only going to raise again soon. I tried to stay with my ex for ages, we had three months of pure bliss then we broke up one night and kept getting back togther, seven months, scarred wrists, and broken hearts later we decided it would be better to move on, and yeah it really hurt and I thought he was the one yadda yadda.
I think you should tell your best mate your not interested anymore and you don't wanna loose what you have with him as a friend. I think you shouild then tell your current bf that you know theres a reason you broke up, and your still upset about it and you cant be with him. Unless you want to stay with him in that case tell your best mate to back off cos your not interested and if he doesn't tell him your not single and that yuour bakc with your ex.

[jen]

to be honest with you you're young and chances are you arent going to be with either of them for the rest of your life. you're going to meet new people and have new relationships and i know its fun to pass the time with people and at least try and make things work in the relationship but seriously theres like a 2% chance you'll be with them in the future if even that and if you can't decide between either of them you obviously aren't going to be with either of them, so don't let it get to you too much and don't get too attached because well yeah basically you wont be with either of them forever.
secondly i wouldn't jump between two people if i were you and just forget about them both and move on (:

[atom]

I don't just see why you don't just tell them what you feel, if you explain things to them they can just like it or lump it. You can't help your feelings at the end of the day.

[-Madzii]

Well, You should tell your mate everything after all he deserves to know, if you keep him in the dark someone else will tell him, and that'll be worse xx

[Bec]

You must think.. Does your "friend" actually love you? or is it a teenage crush?
Thinking about it.. he probs doesent know what real love is..
He will probably get over the fact. Just say to him that he was really kind and sweet for what he done and you will always look in him for advice and friendship.
As for your current but ex boyfriend lol.. If your happy with him, stay with him..
Just dont let your friend down ever :)

[Kev]

If you're worried about hurting the current bf whos in love with you's feeling you shouldn't have cheated on him with your ex.

Not matter how or when you tell him he's gonna be devastated now....
Damage is done so bite the bullet and tell the poor guy already.

[PureQuest]

If you're worried about hurting the current bf whos in love with you's feeling you shouldn't have cheated on him with your ex.

Not matter how or when you tell him he's gonna be devastated now....
Damage is done so bite the bullet and tell the poor guy already.

date them both and enjoy getting penetrated double time

[Dan.]

I agree with rich dump them both

[Cheryl]

Ok first off, i feel really sorry for your mate he helped you through all that and then you throw it back in his face, thats my opinion. You sounded better off with him than your ex, how do you know your ex wont do it again. But you need to tell him that your going back out, dont hide it it will just make it worse.

[Megan!]

Yeah cheryl, I know i felt like absolout ****. I didnt want to hurt him, i felt so bad. But yeah he knows it all now. And now hates me i think.